First of all, yes, you are absolutely entitled ALWAYS to decide for yourself what you want to say and do. You have FULL CONTROL over that. That’s 100% true.
AND you also have a responsibility as a human being to treat the people in your sphere well, SIMULTANEOUSLY as you exercise your autonomy.
Category or Tag: Month: August 2020
Prioritizing a Partner is NOT Hierarchy
The inherent assumption is that the status of “highest priority” in hierarchical relationships will remain permanently and never ever waver, which is, for most, unrealistic. And in practice is quite a powerful and sometimes inaccurate assumption. It can also feed harmful behaviours (VETO is an example) and ways of thinking of someone else as intrinsically LESS. Which is personally why I don’t practice hierarchy.
Finding Balance in Polyamory
If you don’t yet know your limits of time, energy and resouces, you’re about bump your head on the ceiling of those!
So, what can you DO? How do you discuss this with your partners in a compassionate, loving, mindful way?
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