The PolyPhoria Blog
Welcome to my blog about my polyamorous journey over three and a half decades! PolyPhoria means "many states" and, as someone who's experienced MANY different dynamics, orientations and structures in my relationships, that really resonated. Here I share what I've learned, and am learning, about how to have healthier relationships with others and with myself!
Weaponized Autonomy
Prioritizing a Partner is NOT Hierarchy
Finding Balance in Polyamory
Speaking Their Love Language: an Obligation or a Choice?
I wrote this in response to an online post which stated that learning a partner's love language was never intended for you to feel obligated to fill their needs in that way. The person posting went on to say, "If you tell me your love language as a means of MAKING me...
I Have Feelings
I have feelings. They are not easily hurt but they have been bruised too many times to count. They have learned to guard themselves. They have been taught that loving someone doesn't solve all problems. They have been shown that vulnerability often leads to fear,...
My Top 20 Tips for Great Group Sex
So, you've decided to dip your toes into group sex? OR you have before but are hoping to increase the odds of a positive experience? OR you just are curious AF? I've got you. Here are my... Top 20 Tips for Great Group Sex! 1. Don't hoard someone's time and body...
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“Leanne is a treasure and a fabulous life coach and therapist! She is the first marriage counsellor that actually helped my husband and I progress to where we both needed to be. Sadly, that meant he and I parted ways. But I have to wonder if we had found Leanne years before we did if the outcome could have been different. I will be forever grateful we had Leanne help us through our painful but freeing process.”
Janell
Washington, USA
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